What Is Your Reason For Your Divorce?

Are you wondering why people get divorced? Or, perhaps, you are wondering why people stay married? Is the very best description of your marriage, unhappy, or is it very unhappy?

Knowing why to divorce can be difficult, and it's a decision that can't be taken lightly. So how do you know if you should proceed? How can you be sure that this time is really it? That this time there's no turning back?

Are you being abused?
It doesn’t matter if it is emotional or physical, abuse is something no one should have to live with. If you believe you are a victim of abuse, you may consider calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.

You no longer respect or trust your spouse.
A strong marriage is based on trust, understanding and mutual respect. If you've lost all respect or no longer trust your spouse, it may be a sign that it's time to move on. If you are being lied to even about small issues it is a bad sign for future interactions.

You think of your marriage as "the lesser of evils."
If you're only staying with your husband or wife because you think it's easier than having to start over and find someone new, chances are your relationship is in serious trouble.

You are the one being unfaithful to your spouse.
Many people think of an affair as a physical relationship. But you're kidding yourself if you think emotionally charged Facebook chats or texting exchanges with friends or coworkers are harmless. You've just traded one kind of an affair for another.

If you're cheating on your spouse physically or emotionally, it might be time to give your spouse the respect they deserve and get a divorce so you both can find happiness.

At the end of the day, only you can determine if you should get a divorce. It's a personal decision that should be made with careful thought and consideration.

But if one or more of the items on this list is true for you, and you think it's time to take the next step, you owe it to yourself to learn the best way to tell your spouse you want a divorce so you can keep things as peaceful as possible and do what's best for you, your spouse and your children.

At WHYmediate?, we give you the tools you need to resolve your Divorce conflicts in a positive learning environment. 

Through mediation if you need a divorce why not get the best possible outcome.

WHYmediate? Mediation Services
4500 South Lakeshore Drive Suite 300 
Tempe, AZ 85282 
(480) 777-5500
http://whymediate.solutions