Thursday, December 24, 2015

Divorce Expectations Meet Reality

It is fair to say that no divorce is sweet and rarely is it as amicable as hoped for. Many losses are experienced when ending a marriage, such as the loss of a home, security, finances, comfort, intimacy, just to name a few of the loses.

The good news is that there are some strategies that divorcing couples can learn in order to make their departure from the relationship as peaceful and stress-free as possible. By finding successful strategies to deal with the loss and pain, both partners can find an effective pathway to facilitate the process and end up with a peaceful outcome.

Mediation Is One Of The Best Strategies

At WHYmediate?, we give you the tools you need to resolve conflict in a positive learning environment. 

We believe in open communication – full disclosure of all possible issues, obstacles and solutions, sharing information, stories, experiences that will help you.

Use Mediation:
In making a difference in your life and the lives of all involved in the mediation process.

In contributing to your resolution and keeping you out of court.

In building trust by starting with your WHY to enhance communication.

In bringing a direct, honest and fresh approach to the table, sharing the most current skill set.

In collective brainstorming for best options and results.

In providing customized options – full or partial services for your specific needs.

Mediation can help you move forward in your lives, addressing critical or temporary issues on your agenda first and fast.

We can help you learn to deal with the emotional aspect of the breakup above all else. Divorce is a time of great emotional pain and enormous change. You may have done your utmost to save the marriage, only to have it result in a definite end. If you're finding it difficult to work through the changes and sense of emotional loss, it is vital to seek counselling from a neutral party, as this will help you deal with the loss of trust, respect and affection within the relationship.

Divorce professionals such as therapists, mediators and attorneys often believe that statements such as, "I've had it with him." or "My feelings have died for her," are indicators that the marriage is over. Most couples who begin a divorce are unprepared and are often not even on the same page when they begin. It is this lack of preparedness and readiness for a divorce that either causes marriages to end prematurely or divorces to deteriorate into competitive contests. The conclusion to obtain a divorce is one of the most crucial assessments a person can make with consequences that last for years or a lifetime. A decision this important requires much greater attention than it is usually given by both couples and professional mediators.

At WHYmediate?, Find out if mediation can allow you to resolve all marital conflicts in a positive learning environment that covers how to deal with all the special challenges in your life.

WHYmediate? Mediation Services
4500 South Lakeshore Drive Suite 300 
Tempe, AZ 85282 
(480) 777-5500
http://whymediate.solutions

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